Because I know Oma and Opa are anxiously awaiting these pictures, we'll dive right into a trip down memory lane in Tobelo.
Tobelo is a pleasant, small city (maybe 10000 people) on the Northeast coast of Halmahera. It is the largest city in Northern Halmahera and is surrounded by seemingly endless groves of tall, graceful coconut palms waving in the breeze. The coconut trees provide Tobelo with its major industry- copra or dried coconut meat - and a distinctive, not entirely pleasant, smell of drying coconut. The land is very fertile, fed by several active volcanoes. The port at Tobelo is important for shipping and you can catch, albeit very intermitent, ferries from here to other parts of Indonesia and Southeast Asia. The waters around Tobelo are peppered with small tropical islands (think Gilligan's Island), some inhabited, some not. There is good snorkeling and fishing and general beach hanging out. However, there is almost no tourist infrastructure and foreigners are a novelty to be yelled at ("Hey mister"), giggled at and chatted up in whatever bit of English one might know. The week we visited there were two groups of bule (white folks) there as well. One group of American dentists and nurses staying at the same small and very basic hotel we did and heading out to an outlying village for clinics every day and a group of Dutch Christians celebrating the 60th anniversary of having turned over the Christian mission to Indonesians. Baba fortuitously met up with the latter group on our first day and trailed after them on an island trip and a hospital visit.
Oma and Opa came to Tobelo over 40 years ago when Baba was just a wee mite (6 months old). Opa worked as a physician at the hospital. Uncle Dagy (as the Indonesians called him!) was born here. The family returned to the United States when little Baba was 5 years old. His earliest memories, most still buried deep in the recesses of his brain, are of this place. For the past 15 years I've been hearing stories of Tobelo, seeing Christmas slideshows of Tobelo and eating food that Oma learned to cook in Tobelo. Actually visiting and seeing the house where Baba lived, the beaches he played on and the singular beauty of the place and meeting people who knew him as a child was a privilege.
On our first afternoon in the city, while the girls and I napped, Baba went exploring to find his old house. With the help of a Pastor who he met wandering the neighborhood, he found it. Later he took us there too. I had a gasp of recognition when seeing the place. It looks just like those Christmas slides and the prints of Baba's family standing in front of the house, of Baba and Dagy playing with a wagon on the wide, wide porches and of Baba holding a dead rat by the tail that hung on the walls of our house in North Carolina.
Anyone else recognize this place?
The house is currently owned by a doctor who conducts clinics there.
When he was here alone, Baba accidently wandered into the house (and got some video footage of that). We stayed outside!
The kamar kecil - bathroom - where Baba reports learning to take a Mandi (an Indonesian bath) from Opa.
The kitchen.
The back porches.
I was quite taken by the weathering on the buildings.
The girls were quite taken by the swing.
There is some sweet symmetry in seeing our girls playing on the porches of Baba's childhood.
Under the watchful eye of a parrot. Not a dead one either!
On Sunday morning we visited the church that Baba thinks he attended as a child - Oma? The church has over 500 members and several services. The one we attended was short - totally unlike any other Indonesian service I've been to. I was just settling down with my fan and mentos (to placate the Goose) when they were benedicting us out the door!
The best part of the memory-lane was meeting up with people who knew Baba and his family back when. We took along prints of many slides showing people for reference. Many, many people helped us to identify who was who and to help us locate folks who were still living (many had passed on) or still living in the area.
We met up with this woman in a small village north of Tobelo, finding her way back in the jungle behind the local school. Her eyesight was gone, so she couldn't look at the photos but yes, remembered working for Baba's family when she was young. She apparently helped out in the kitchen.
Here's some folks pouring over the photos with Baba. The old guy on the left wasn't in any of the photos, but remembered the family. He kept insisting "Saya kenal Dr. Opa! Kami taman-taman, ja! Saya kenal Dr. Opa!!" - "I knew Dr. Opa, we were friends, Yes sir! I knew Dr. Opa". We have some great video of that!!!
Our favorite meeting was with this delightful woman who was Baba and Uncle Dagy's nanny. She showed up at our hotel on the day Baba was off climbing the volcano. She had with her a photo of Baba's family from the 1960's , kept, I was told, in her Bible. I talked with her, and the woman with her (the daughter of a man that Oma taught with) for several hours waiting for Baba to return. Finally they had to leave, but invited us to visit them the next day - our last.
I learned many things from Ibu about Little Baba, including a new story of how he set a pile of coconut husks on fire while everyone else was sleeping and danced gleefully around shouting about his accomplishment. Ibu also recalled that Baba was "sedekit nakal, tapi Dagy was manis sekali" - Baba was a bit naughty, but Dagy was very sweet. This seemed to be the reigning sentiment in Tobelo regarding these two boys!
Ibu H
Baba meeting Ibu H again.
Ibu won the hearts of our girls by hosting us so graciously at the guest house she manages at the local (small) college. It was a beautiful location and we had a lovely visit.
The girls got completely filthy playing in the wide open yard, a real treat to have green space to run and tumble in.
Ibu sent us away with bags and bags of treats, well wishes to Oma and Opa and entreaties for us to visit again, and next time to stay at the guest house with Ibu so she could properly take care of us. We are- very seriously - trying to figure out how to make that happen. And soon!!!!